Monday, 24 October 2016

TMI Tuesday - How is it going?

How’s it going–you know,
your relationship?

1. How did you realize an important relationship (romantic, friendship, business) was over? What was the pivotal moment or statement?
When I found myself thoroughly enjoying multiple unfamilar cocks on a regular basis

2. Relationship strategy–do you have one? Share.
a. Find someone I like
b. Find out if they like me
c. Find out if they can hold a good conversation
d. Find out if they can match me for sex drive
e. Find out if they are up for group sex (and if so, not being difficult afterwards)
f.  Get them to keep fucking me

3. Name two things you appreciate about your current relationship. Why are these things significant? (If not currently in a relationship, feel free to refer to your best relationship)

a. I have someone who is interested in me and cares about me
b. His cock is always ready for me 

4. In your relationship, do you compromise:
a. a little
b. never – I usually get my way
c. too much, it helps keep the peace

We are very much alike and think in very similar ways so there aren't any cross words. I certainly wouldn't answer b or c as there always has to be flexibility to accomodate the other person and to ensure that we have a positive relationship

5. If you went to couple’s therapy, which of these are you most likely to have a need to discuss:
a. My significant other feels more like a roommate.
b. Sex is uncomfortable.
c. My partner doesn’t know what I like in bed.
d. “Forget sex! We barely touch.”

None!!! We very compatible, especially sexually

Bonus: Below is a list of extreme sports. You must pick one sport to try. Why would you do that sport?
1. skydiving
2. volcano diving

3. zip-lining through a jungle
4. bungee jumping
The zip wire sounds the most fun and the one where I would feel most in control, plus there'll be lots of good jungley things to see too!!

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Saturday, 22 October 2016

Sinful Sunday - God I love anal!!!

The contrast of YSL body hair against my super smooth cunt

But the important thing is that his cock is where I want it.....In my ass!!!

God I love anal!!

Sinful Sunday

Monday, 17 October 2016

TMI Tuesday - Let's talk about sex

Hello world! Guess what we are talking about this week at TMI Tuesday?

1. Good sex can be surprisingly difficult to find from single males on swinging websites.

2. Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about getting a sadly large number of swinging website single males familar with soap, bathing, basic manners/courtesies, social norms, intelligent level of conversation........and then, perhaps, only then, might we get on to considering our genitals getting anywhere near each other.

3. Swinging Website single males having reasonable looks, intelligence, being about 6' tall, dressing appropriately, having a full set of teeth, and not being a smoker is all about putting pleasure back into sex.

4. Excessive use of pornography can distort expectations of what sex in real life should or could be like.
a. True
b. False

Care to expand?
Yes, I do understand the argument for this, especially with young, inexperienced and impressionable minds as well as people who are just idiots of any age who convince themselves that because some porn titles indicate female delight at being tied up by the tits and rammed anally that all women are up for this and never mind being asked, are just wanting to be taken like this...........all the time. However, for me, I've always been in the amateur porn camp and seeing real people doing real things, so no airbrushed, sex for pay, fantasy nonesense for me. It's Gonzo style every time. In no particular order, just simply the first ones I found today, exhibits of this genre here, here, here, here, here, here, here................and here

5. Soaked panties boosts my sexual performance.  A man with a fithly mind boosts my sexual enjoyment.

Bonus:  What is the last way that you experienced sexual pleasure?
For those who follow my Sinful Sundays, you will have seen yesterday another pic from this series where YSL and I were anally fucking each other with a double ended glass know, usual stuff like that.

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Saturday, 15 October 2016

Sinful Sunday - Double Anal Fucking

Following Sinful Sunday last week it can be revealed that we were anally sharing a glass dildo between each other

Absolutely heavenly to feel us fucking each other and our ass cheeks pressed up against each other

Sinful Sunday

Monday, 10 October 2016

TMI Tuesday - The Sexes?

The sexes?

1. What is femininity to you? Tell us in 50 words or less.
It is about celebrating my gender and the western societal norms that accompany it such as dress, shoes, hair, make-up and desirability from men. 

2. How does femininity come into play in your sexual relationship?
I love to dress for the occasion and to see and feel the desire that men have for me a well as it being more acceptable for fem/fem play in the swinging community.

3. What does masculinity mean to you? Tell us in 50 words or less?
It is about having confidence, thinking in a logical way and having the strength to be comfortable with non-orthodox ways of thinking.

4. Men, we often hear about women’s body image struggles–what are your body image issues?
YSL – I’m sure that we all wish that something was different about us and I think that it can fall in to two categories. Genetics, where there is nothing that we can do about it e.g. height, hair loss, etc and things that perhaps involve work or some form of fortitude, such as weight loss, becoming fitter, etc. I am fairly comfortable in myself and wouldn’t say that I have any body image issues however I am mindful of the benefits that would accrue if I went to the gym on a more regular basis.

5. Men’s gender role conflict is a psychological state in which restrictive definitions of masculinity limit men’s well-being and human potential. Do you now or have you ever suffered from Men’s gender role conflict? What are you doing to resolve this?
YSL - Ahhh yes, James O’Neil’s et al’s seminal work from 1986, General-Role Conflict Scale: College men’s fear of femininity published in the Sex Roles journal. Below is the schematic and definitions that Jimmy took to base his work upon

No never suffered from it so nothing to resolve. However, commenting upon the taxonomies, 
1. Restrictive emotionality – I’m reasonably stable emotionally and usually absorb things within feeling the need for expression
2. Homophobia – None at all
3. Control – I don’t feel the need to be in control, however I do express if I think things are going in the wrong direction or a wrong approach is being taken
4. Restricted sexual/affectionate behaviour – With consent and with those who invite it, I am not restricted at all
5. Obsession with achievement/success – Work means a lot to me as I find it fulfilling as well as a way of earning income, however I don’t undertake it for status or to demonstrate value
6. Health care problems – I don’t really have any, but as above, a bit more face time at the gym wouldn’t hurt

Bonus: Does gender have any real meaning anymore?
I believe it does, but as with most things, there has been change over the years, so not that long ago being female would stereotypically have been shorthand for looking for a husband then being a housekeeper. I believe that women are equal to men in skill and mental ability but perhaps not so much in physical ability.

Society works by rules and norms and I like the progression that we have seen in gender equality over recent times. Sexually I am fortunate enough to live in a time where the stud/slut argument is finally dying so I can enjoy and live out my sexuality without shame, remorse, guilt or worrying about what others may think of me.

It’s been a bit rambling this answer, but overall, I like the increasing equality and maintenance of the distinction between genders re appearance. 

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Saturday, 8 October 2016

Sinful Sunday - Cheek to Cheek

Early morning with YSL
He told me to lay on my front
He sat on my ass
.....more revealed next SinfulSunday
Sinful Sunday

Monday, 3 October 2016

TMI Tuesday - Sex IQ?

TMI Tuesday time. Answer these interesting questions adapted from Red Lipstick Project’s Sexual IQ test.

1. You want to make love, but your partner says they’re too tired:
A. You’re annoyed and frustrated.
B. It’s a bummer, but you understand they’ve had a long day.
C. You give your partner an awkwardly long hug and say you’re happy to wait. It’s better when you’re both into it.
D. You get nervous and worried. Maybe your partner is cheating or doesn’t think you’re attractive anymore.

*For sex to be good and successful, all players, note I didn't say both ;-) have to be engaged, interested and enthusiastic, so why push something?? So, what would happen in this scenario? See answer 4 to this recent TMI post

2. Who is having better sex? You or your best friends?
A. I am, obviously.
B. We don’t talk about our sex lives. Ever.
C. We all have our good times and bad times. We don’t usually compare.
D. My friends have all the good sex. I can’t keep up.

*It's not a competition in my mind, it's simply what you enjoy for you. I don't feel shortchanged whatsoever, so I'm not comparing and wishing things were like 'what she has'.

3. How do you feel right after sex?
A. Sweaty and ready to shower. A little gross.
B. Satisfied and energized. Ready to take on the world.
C. Calm and happy, falling asleep.
D. A bit let down and tired.
*I just love sex and being filled with cum. The more sex I have, the more that I want!!
YSL is very familar with this as if we take this lovely friend shown here, here and here, after we have enjoyed five or six hours with her, I still want an hour or two with YSL afterwards. 
He has to keep up.........and he readily accepts the challenge every time :-)

4. Which is better? Being a man or woman?
A. Men have it so much easier
B. Women have it so much easier

C. I’m having too much fun being me to worry about it.
D. Is there really much of a difference?

*Don't really need to add any context to this one

5. You and your partner had sex that wasn’t that good. You:
*A. Don’t say anything. Everyone has an off day.
B. Complain or drop hints that things better improve.
C. Consider whether you should break up. Sex is the glue to a good relationship.
D. Discuss it immediately and see if there is anything you should be doing differently.
*A reluctant answer to ‘A’ provided as the sex is always good :-)

6. What advice do you wish you had when you started having sex?
A. Sex is a great thing–healthy and fun.
B. A proper tour of the reproductive parts as errogenous zones and not from a biology point of view. Bodies are really strange and getting to know them can be awkward.
C. Sex is a beautiful thing but be careful to protect your body from STD’s and pregnancy or you won’t have as much fun.
D. Enjoy sex while you can, because it gets worse as you get older.
* Not really sure that any of these are advice I would have wished for early as you pick these things up as you go along anyway. However, I do know that certainly from my experience, ‘D’ is an outright lie!!!

Bonus: What will your sex life be like when you’re 70 years old?
A. I can’t imagine having sex when I get wrinkly.
B. Probably a little sex here and there.

C. Hopefully my years of knowledge and hard work in the bedroom will pay off when I am having good sex in my 70’s.

* and ‘C’ for this question is the truest and best answer of all of this week’s questions :-) 

I look forward to the future without fear and have anticipation of continually being sexually fulfilled and the experiences becoming ever richer as I grow older

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